I'm back from Malaysia.
All I can say is that, everything happens too unpredictable.
Till now, I still can't accept the fact that my thirdth uncle had passed away.
He was my best uncle. He came to Singapore a few years back, work here.
Sometimes visited us. I remembered he bought us toys, and when I said I wanted to have a fish as a pet, he made one fish tank for me. He loves small children but never wanted to get married.
He was only 42 this year.
My mum cried almost everyday after his departure, everybody was heartbroken.
My Liu Yi (sixth aunt) said that he died because of heart attack. (pain to death)
We didnt know he had heart attack, he didnt like to say things to anybody, keeping everything to himself. Even his heart was damn pain, he just won't say a word.

He likes to sit in the living room, watch television programme, despite everybody was having fun, playing, chatting.
Till now, I kept thinking of him, his buddha-like face, smiling at me. Didnt say anything, just smile. Keep smiling..

My mum has a big family, she had 19 sibilings excluding herself which was 20 in all.
14 from my wai po, another 6 from my another waipo.
Fyi, my waigong had two wives.
Da laopo is my wai po,
xiao laopo is my yi po, (something like that.)

& there's one thing I just found out , about 1 year ago.
It is that, my mama has a younger brother which was my dk which uncle,
is only 19 years old.
Until now, Im still confused on how to call which uncles or aunts. As I live in Singapore, so
is like , go back once a year.

Saying about this, Im envy over those of you which have relatives that stay close to you all.
Unlike me, I only sees my waipo only 11 times. (once a year)
My Ahgu, (3rd uncle, I call him ahgu since young) I only sees him for dk how many times but less than 15 times.
So, please cherished those people around you!
'Jin shi de yuan fen, shi qian shi xiu lai de fu.'
(Ps, I dk how to translate to english. LOL)

Ps, I miss my cousins, relatives.
Pss, I miss my friends!